My latest heartbreak taught me a very important lesson. I shouldn’t be entitled to a girl just because we have the same interests. Just because we had the same taste in literature, philosophy, same kind of humour and share the same discipline in school, it doesn’t mean that I deserved her.
That was probably the stupidest assumption for me to make. I felt like just because we had this connection and we got along on certain fronts that I was automatically entitled to her, sexually. Nothing could be further from the truth. Seduction isn’t just about having common interests with a woman, it’s about garnering attraction in her for you.. I shouldn’t have had such high hopes about her, she was just one girl who happened to read the same books that I’ve read.
It’s a very important lesson to learn for the future.
